The Charm of a Weekday Wedding

We’ve noticed a lovely trend. Weekday weddings offer a different kind of romance, a more serene and perhaps more intimate experience that many couples are discovering. It’s a chance to truly savour every moment, away from the typical weekend rush, and more and more couples are opting for a weekday wedding.

With fewer demands on everyone’s calendars compared to a busy weekend, guests often find it easier to dedicate their full attention to your special day. It’s a quieter pace, allowing for deeper connections and more meaningful interactions. 

Flexibility for Your Dream Date

One of the real advantages of considering a weekday wedding is the increased flexibility it offers when it comes to booking your preferred date. Popular weekend dates at sought-after venues, like our very own Larkspur Lodge, can book up incredibly quickly, sometimes years in advance. This can mean compromises on your vision or waiting longer than you’d hoped. 

By looking at a Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday for your wedding day, a whole new world of possibilities opens up.

From photographers and florists to caterers and musicians, many wedding professionals have more availability during the week. This means you’re more likely to secure the team you truly desire, the ones who perfectly understand your style for your day. It reduces the stress of competition and allows for a smoother planning process, knowing that your first-choice vendors are more likely to be free. It’s about making your dream wedding a reality without feeling constrained by limited options.

This can mean more time for those last-minute touches, a leisurely breakfast with your bridal party, or simply a moment to breathe and take everything in before the festivities begin. It’s about enjoying the journey as much as the destination.

Weekday Celebrations

Beyond availability, there are several other benefits to choosing a weekday for your wedding. 

One often overlooked advantage is the potential for a more relaxed and extended celebration. If you’re planning a multi-day event, a weekday wedding can seamlessly flow into a long weekend, allowing guests to extend their stay and explore the beautiful Cheshire countryside. It transforms your wedding from a single event into a wonderful mini-holiday for your loved ones. This could be perfect for those who want to spend more time with their nearest and dearest, perhaps by booking our beautiful penthouse for a longer stay.

Thinking about costs, it’s worth noting that many venues and suppliers offer slightly different pricing structures for weekday events. This can sometimes lead to a little more wiggle room in your budget, allowing you to perhaps splurge on that extra special detail you’ve been dreaming of, or simply free up funds for other aspects of your wedding or honeymoon. It’s always a good idea to discuss this with your chosen venue and suppliers, as the savings can be significant.

Another wonderful aspect of a weekday wedding is the atmosphere. There's often a greater sense of intimacy and exclusivity. Roads are typically quieter, and attractions in the area might be less crowded, making for a more peaceful experience for guests travelling to us. It feels like your day is truly set apart, a private celebration just for you and your cherished guests. This calm can translate into a more relaxed and joyful feeling throughout the entire day, allowing you to soak up every precious moment without feeling overwhelmed.

Intimate Guest List

A weekday wedding can also naturally lead to a more intimate guest list, which for many couples is a definite plus. While you’ll still invite all your loved ones, some may find it harder to take time off work or travel during the week. This isn't a drawback, but rather an organic way to ensure that those who are truly able to make it are the ones who are most invested in sharing your special day. It means your wedding will be filled with the people who matter most, creating an atmosphere of deep connection and genuine affection.

This more focused guest list can also simplify the planning process. Fewer guests can mean less logistical coordination, making everything from seating plans to catering arrangements a little smoother. It allows you to spend more quality time with each guest, truly connecting and sharing your joy. 

The photographs from your day will reflect this closeness, capturing genuine smiles and heartfelt embraces amongst your closest circle. You can view some of these beautiful moments in our gallery.

For couples dreaming of a smaller, more personal affair, a weekday wedding can feel like the perfect fit. It allows you to strip away some of the traditional expectations and focus purely on what truly matters to you both. It’s about creating a day that feels authentic and deeply meaningful, shared with the people who form the very core of your support system.

Creating a Unique Timeline

One of the exciting things about a weekday wedding is the opportunity to create a more unique timeline for your day. Freed from the constraints of a typical Saturday schedule, you have more scope to design a flow that perfectly suits you. Perhaps you dream of a leisurely morning with your bridal party, followed by an early afternoon ceremony and a delicious lunch reception. Or perhaps a late afternoon ceremony leading into an evening of dancing and celebration, allowing guests to arrive after work.

This flexibility allows for a more tailored experience, one that truly reflects your personalities and preferences. You could incorporate unique elements that might not fit into a standard weekend schedule, like a relaxed brunch the morning after, or an extended photo session in the beautiful grounds of Larkspur Lodge. It’s about breaking free from conventions and designing a day that feels authentically yours, from start to finish.

Think about the possibilities for your guests, too. A weekday wedding could allow them to make a short break of it, perhaps staying over in one of our lovely local hotels, or even enjoying an overnight stay in the exclusive hire wedding barn if they are part of your immediate family. It provides an opportunity for them to relax and enjoy the occasion without the usual weekend rush of obligations.

Making it Work for Your Guests

While the idea of a weekday wedding is appealing, it’s understandable to have concerns about your guests’ availability. The key is clear communication and giving everyone plenty of notice. Send out your save-the-dates well in advance, even more so than you might for a weekend wedding. This gives your loved ones ample time to arrange annual leave, childcare, or travel plans.

Consider providing detailed information about accommodation options in the local area, making it easy for guests who wish to stay overnight. A thoughtful touch could be a list of local attractions or things to do for those who are making a longer trip of it. At Larkspur Lodge, we’re always happy to provide recommendations for nearby hotels and activities to help your guests feel welcome and comfortable.

It’s also worth remembering that your closest friends and family will likely move mountains to be there, regardless of the day of the week. For those who can’t make it, understanding and empathy are key. A small, intimate gathering with your nearest and dearest can be just as joyful, if not more so, than a larger, more traditional affair. It’s about celebrating your love in a way that feels right for you, surrounded by those who truly cherish you.

Your Big Day

If the idea of a quieter, more personal wedding appeals to you, then a weekday at Larkspur Lodge could be precisely what you're looking for. Our dedicated team is here to help you plan every aspect of your day, ensuring it runs beautifully, leaving you free to enjoy every precious moment. 

We can guide you through all the considerations, from timings to guest arrangements, ensuring a seamless experience. Our comprehensive wedding planning support is designed to make your journey enjoyable and stress-free.

We encourage you to explore the possibilities and perhaps download our brochure for more information about celebrating your love story with us. 

We would be delighted to talk through your ideas and show you around our beautiful venue. Please don't hesitate to get in touch with any questions you may have. If the idea of a quieter, more personal wedding appeals to you, then a weekday at Larkspur Lodge could be what you're looking for. 

Photo credit: TOM GROVES